Nigerian rapper and actor, Ikechukwu Onunaku, has confirmed that his marriage has ended.
Recall that the former Mohits rapper tied the nuptial knot with his fiancée, Ella, in May 2021.
But speaking in a recent interview with Daddy Freeze, Ikechukwu said he was now divorced.
He cited “irreconcilable differences” as the reason for the desolation of his marriage, revealing that it was not due to infidelity. In Ikechukwu Onunaku’s words:
“My wife and I are no longer together. We separated due to irreconcilable differences. It wasn’t over infidelity. There were too much gaslighting, too much looking for faults, and too much listening to outsiders.
“I tried to save our marriage but I got to a point where I couldn’t tolerate my ex-wife’s excesses anymore and I showed her my other side and we couldn’t bear it.”
In a society where marriage is often romanticized as the epitome of happiness and fulfillment, the acknowledgment of marital discord can carry a significant stigma. For public figures like Ikechukwu, whose personal lives are scrutinized by the media and fans alike, the decision to publicly address their relationship struggles is met with both curiosity and judgment. However, by speaking candidly about his experiences, Ikechukwu challenges the notion that divorce equates to failure. Instead, he highlights the importance of prioritizing personal well-being and emotional health, even in the face of societal expectations.
One aspect of Ikechukwu’s revelation that warrants attention is his mention of gaslighting and fault-finding as contributing factors to the breakdown of his marriage. Gaslighting, a form of emotional manipulation aimed at undermining a person’s sense of reality, can have devastating effects on one’s mental and emotional well-being. Similarly, constant criticism and fault-finding erode trust and breed resentment within a relationship. By shedding light on these issues, Ikechukwu not only raises awareness about the dynamics of emotional abuse but also emphasizes the importance of recognizing and addressing toxic behaviors in relationships.
While the end of a marriage undoubtedly brings profound grief and upheaval, it also presents an opportunity for healing and growth. For Ikechukwu and Ella, finding closure may entail embarking on separate paths towards self-discovery and fulfillment. By prioritizing self-care, seeking support from loved ones, and engaging in therapeutic interventions, they can begin the journey towards healing from the wounds of their failed marriage. Though the road ahead may be fraught with challenges, it is also brimming with the potential for new beginnings and transformative growth.
In the same interview with Daddy Freeze, Ikechukwu recounted his experience at the now-defunct record label, Mohits Records, owned by D’banj and Don Jazzy.
The rapper claimed D’banj used to cheat him out of his hard earned money by giving him stipends after making millions.
According to him, D’banj would pay him a meagre N50,000 for shows he was booked for, despite the actual fee being over N1.5 million. He said the ‘koko master’ used to treat him like he was doing him a favour.
However, he mentioned that D’banj later increased the payment to N150,000 after obtaining permission from his mother.
Ikechukwu also added that D’banj’s mother was a major decision maker in the label, and anything she says, goes.
